We'd booked the third week of June off work to celebrate our third wedding anniversary. Initially we had planning lots of day trips near to home but after what happened in May and some other stresses at home we decided that we needed a break away further afield. We turned our sights to my favourite city in the world, Rome. We nabbed a pretty good last minute deal which included flights and a posh hotel on the Via Veneto.
So early one Monday morning we took the train to Gatwick for our flight, arriving in Rome at lunchtime. As we stepped off of the plane we were hit by a wall of heat which was a bit of a shock to the system. We knew it would be warm, but we what we hadn't expected was a difference of 20 degrees! England was cooler than average for June, but apparently Italy was hotter than average for June!
We took the airport shuttle bus to the city. I had been to Rome twice before so I let my husband take the window seat. We watched the suburbs flash by and before too long we were on the outskirts of the Vatican, and then across the river and through the centre, though not past any of the sites, to Termini Station.
My husband had worked out the route to our hotel, which was a blessing because I was already too hot and bothered to look at a map. My body was crying out for air conditioning, something it never ever does because normally I am an air conditioning hater.
It was so hot that the walk took forever, and we were enormously relieved to find the Via Veneto, which is on a hill no less. How dare it be so! Our hotel was only about half way up and we walked through the glass doors to be met by deliciously cool air and a marbled hallway.
The concierge showed us to our room which was bigger than our house, complete with an enormous bed and more lovely air con. Everything seemed rather posh, if a little dated. We were mildly intimidated by the apparent grandeur so I guess it put our minds at ease to see the chipped glass lamp shades and the the worn carpet. It was a 5 star hotel of a bygone era, but comfortable and cool and all that we needed for somewhere to freshen up and rest our heads.
After cooling down and unpacking we headed back out into the blazing sunshine, following the Via Veneto round in the direction of the Villa Borghese. There we wandered through the peaceful parkland, watching as tourists whizzed past on segways or on the rather disappointingly named chariots - I'll admit that when I read in the guide book that you could hire "chariots" I thought they meant Roman imitations, not glorified pedal bikes - wouldn't that be better don't you think? Or is it just me?
We stopped at a restaurant to buy ice cream. Italy has served me the best ice cream I have ever tried every time I've visited and I am pleased to say that I was not disappointed on this occasion. My husband had a scrumptious chocolate ice cream and I went for lemon which was as wonderfully sharp and refreshing as a glass of Victorian lemonade.
After making a bit of a mess of ourselves as the ice creams had begun to melt as soon as the sun looked at them, we continued onwards to the Pincio Gardens, which look out across the Piazza del Popolo across to St Peter's Basilica in one direction and the Il Vittoriano in another. We leant on the wall gazing at the views and settled deeper into holiday mode.
After relaxing for a while we made our way down the steps to the piazza and then onto the Spanish Steps which were predictably crawling with tourists and guys trying to sell us roses and weird squeaky monster things. We successfully bypassed them by firmly saying "No grazie," several times before we quickly disappeared into the maze of neighbouring cobbled streets.
After a while we found ourselves at the Mausoleum of Augustus which was unfortunately all fenced off so you couldn't get close to it. It was strange sight. I have written so many essays on Augustus, particularly during my MA. He has to be my favourite emperor simply because of how much I read and wrote about him, his household, his government and polices, his enemies, and the years before and after his rise to power. It was strange to see his mausoleum hidden amongst modern buildings, fenced off, looking forlorn.
We stopped by the giant glass cube that now houses the Ara Pacis, one of the great monuments in honour of Augustus, something else I read and wrote a lot about. Unfortunately it was closed. I would have liked to have seen it having dedicated an entire essay to it, as well as giving it a honourable mention in a short story! Instead we sat on the steps in the shade by the fountain and chilled out before it was time to search for dinner.
We stumbled across a pizzeria a couple of streets away called Al Leoncino. We were the first customers of the evening, and we didn't have to wait long for our two enormous pizzas to arrive. They were fantastic - Roman pizza is, after all, the very best! Soon the restaurant was full of other customers and the place was buzzing. I enjoyed putting my rusty Italian to use and quickly regained my confidence in it, unlike my nervous French on our trip to Paris last year!
The streets were still baking when we left, even though the sun had set, so we meandered slowly through the cobbled streets, past the Trevi Fountain that was swarming with tourists and more rose sellers, and across the markedly quieter Piazza Barberini and back up to our hotel where we soon crashed out into one of those wonderful holiday sleeps to prepare us for the next day's adventures.
Photos my own.
Saturday, 6 July 2013
Monday, 1 July 2013
Suddenly Social Life
This is just a quick post to say that it has been just over a week since we got home from a short holiday to Rome. It was one of those holidays that has made us feel like we need another holiday to recover, great but exhausting. I will be blogging about it very soon!
Apart from 'recovering' from our holiday, suddenly our social life has exploded! There have been four parties - an 80s Night, a friend's 30th which was music themed fancy dress, a paella & sangria evening at our place, and a little friend's 1st birthday party!
It's all been rather hectic and I feel pretty worn out. I can't complain though, it's great to be enjoying the summer come rain or shine!
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Apart from 'recovering' from our holiday, suddenly our social life has exploded! There have been four parties - an 80s Night, a friend's 30th which was music themed fancy dress, a paella & sangria evening at our place, and a little friend's 1st birthday party!
It's all been rather hectic and I feel pretty worn out. I can't complain though, it's great to be enjoying the summer come rain or shine!
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Sunday, 16 June 2013
Seeing Thankfulness: Week Two
This week I am thankful for...
...my husband. Here he is pictured just at the start of the Seaford Half Marathon last Saturday. The race is predominantly off-road, starting on Seaford Seafront, on over the South Downs, along the River Cuckmere, and up and then down Seaford Head back onto the seafront. He did really well. I admire his determination to succeed in all that he does, which is why I wanted to include this photo of him running. He has the same passion and drive for all his interests - running, photography, youth work, cooking, stand-up comedy, subterranean exploration, and most especially science. He inspires me to strive for better in the things that I love.
It was also his birthday this week, and I was reminded again how thankful I am that he is such a big part of my life, that he loves me so much, that I can be myself around him 100% of the time, that I can share everything with him, and that he is an awesome cook. I am thankful that he is my best friend and confidante. And I am also thankful for his amazing hugs.
...Victorian innovation and technology...I guess... I mean, I'm not ungrateful for it. We went to the Bluebell Railway, our local steam railway - most regions in Britain have one or two - for my husband's birthday, and I don't really know how else to be thankful for stream trains, but they look pretty cool and they're fun to go for a ride on. So, yeah, here's a picture of a steam train chugging into Horsted Keynes Station on the Bluebell Railway!
...that my parents never made us put Oxo cubes in our milk, bleurgh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
...that the violas we planted in May have flowered beautifully. They're like happy, smiley faces and have sprung up cheerily all over the flowerbed.
...roses. This is the rose tree in our garden that has flowered beautifully, as it does every June. I absolutely love roses!
...that I live in an historical town. It really is a great place, with old houses and flint walls everywhere. The castle sits proudly in the middle, and is a constant reminder of days gone past when blood was shed in great Medieval battles, when the majestic priory was destroyed during Henry VIII's Dissolution of the Monasteries, and when Protestant martyrs were burnt at the stake during Mary I's reign, as well as numerous other feats of history. Whatever may annoy about my town, I am thankful for the fascinating history that whispers from its walls and roads each day.
...water. This is the ruins of a water fight night that we held at the youth group. I am thankful that water is so abundant in this country that we have plenty to play with, let alone to drink, wash and cook with. I want to always be thankful for the provision we have so that I may keep campaigning for those who don't.
Well it's been quite a week. I have had so much more to be thankful for that I haven't been able to take pictures of, but I do love that this project has helped me to be more intentional in my thankfulness, which was Kayleigh's aim with this link-up.
Photos my own.
Monday, 10 June 2013
The House Inspection
We've just had our 'house inspection'
by our landlady. It's been bothering me for a few weeks now. Our
rented cottage is Victorian so complete with draughty
sash windows, damp inviting old brick, and creaky
floorboards. All these charms lose their romance when it's challenge
to keep things clean. Add to that all the stuff we own and our
general untidiness and you can see why house inspections cause me to
break out in a cold sweat.
Thankfully we passed,
although we'll be receiving a few recommendations by e-mail. Now I
can relax a bit more. The whole thing has given me cause to remember
the time when my brothers and I used to play 'house inspections', the
memory of which always makes me laugh.
When we were children we
used to construct houses for our figurines. We'd use books, Sylvanian
Family toys, Duplo, Lego, and even bits of real furniture. We would then
use our imaginations for the rest.
Once our figurine families
were neatly settled in their homes we'd come up with various
adventures for them. One event that nearly always took place was the
'house inspection.'
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| "Look at the state of these walls!" |
An evil house inspector,
usually played by the Sheriff of Nottingham, Jafar or Emperor Palpatine would knock on the door, rudely barge into the house with no
invitation, and proceed to criticise anything and everything about
the house from the layout of one room to the size of another, to the choice of furnishings in the living room (usually Sylvanian floral) to the colour of the units in the kitchen (usually Duplo blue)
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| "You call this a house?" |
Eventually this iniquitous
villain would turn to insulting the home owner and their family. The end result would involve the offended
characters chasing the inspector from their home in a humorous
fashion. More than once this would involve one of the Puppy in my Pocket dogs biting his bottom to more bizarre retaliations such as when one of the inspectors walked in on John Smith from Pocahontus in the bath. John proceeded to drive the bath, which had suddenly
developed wheels for the occasion, after the inspector forcing him
down the Duplo stairs, out of the house and down the carpeted street
to the distant land of the laundry basket. Ah the imaginations of our childhood...
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| "Your face is a disgrace!" |
Who these tiny plastic
house inspectors worked for and what rights of enforcement they had
we will never know, although they did manage a couple of successful evictions which would lead our main characters to another exciting adventure.
Needless to say my view of
house inspections has been tainted by these childhood experiences,
causing me unnecessary anxiety. It is a relief to open the door to a kind landlady who just wants to check we're not digging up
trenches in the kitchen, and who I don't have to chase down the
streets, with or without the aid of my magically wheeled bath.
Sheriff of Nottingham - http://www.totalfilm.com/features/9-villains-who-stole-the-movie
Jafar - http://www.fanpop.com/clubs/jafar/images/14792933/title/jafar-photo
Emperor Palpatine - http://lucasfilm.wikia.com/wiki/Emperor_Palpatine
Sheriff of Nottingham - http://www.totalfilm.com/features/9-villains-who-stole-the-movie
Jafar - http://www.fanpop.com/clubs/jafar/images/14792933/title/jafar-photo
Emperor Palpatine - http://lucasfilm.wikia.com/wiki/Emperor_Palpatine
Friday, 7 June 2013
Seeing Thankfulness: Week One
...summer evenings. I love that it is lighter for longer, and I welcome the coolness at the end of a hot day.
...lunch breaks in the park in the sunshine, complete with a good book to read.
...blackbirds. I love their tuneful song. We have one that is regularly visiting our garden at the moment, on the hunt for juicy worms. The one in photo isn't the same fella, but this one was serenading us beautifully on our walk yesterday evening.
...for the colour pink and the memories it triggers. It was eight years ago today that my grandma died. She would have loved the dress I wore today, as she always liked seeing me in pink. I am thankful for my grandma. I was her first grandchild and only granddaughter. She introduced me to reading and fairytales which in turn gave me my passion for writing stories. I am thankful that I have those precious memories of sitting beside her, reading book after book on the little wicker chair she had especially for me. I miss her, and today she was particularly in my mind.
...for my imagination. This wooded rockery area in the park near work is always really peaceful. I call it the "Goblin Garden" and can just see the goblins, fairies, and other forest creatures running about their daily business as I wander through it. I am thankful that the same imagination helps me create stories full of crazy characters and their wonderful adventures. I need to be reminded to use it more often, and am thankful for any inspiration that comes my way.
...large cups of tea at work. I find tea comforting and a necessary aide to sitting at a computer all day. It's important, therefore, to have a good sized mug to drink it from. I had a lovely Cath Kidston mug with strawberries on it. Now, pranks and what we know as "gross buffoonery" are the order of the day in my office. Earlier this week one of my colleagues was committing the latter when my mug was caught in the fray and fell to the floor smashing into pieces. I was quite upset because it meant that I would now have to drink out of one of the manky mugs in the kitchen that no one ever claims ownership to. Feeling guilty he bought me another Cath Kidston mug, which I didn't expect him to do, but I certainly appreciated. As you can see it's not the same pattern but it's just as pretty as the previous one, and of course I have forgiven him.
So I am thankful God for the beauty around me, for the summer sunshine, the birdsong, and the long days. I am thankful for memories, for imagination, for silliness, and for tea.
Photos my own.
Tuesday, 4 June 2013
June
This month I've decided to join Kayleigh's link-up over at A Million Little Somethings - Seeing Thankfulness - for the month of June. I love Kayleigh's blog and really enjoy her writing.
I don't tend to do link-ups as I'm afraid of not keeping up with them, but this one seems achievable and I love the concept. I would be lying if I said that life wasn't a struggle at the moment, because it really is, but I also have so much to be thankful for and I believe that I should mark that in some way, and what better way than with photos?
June is a special month for me. It involves two celebrations with my husband and it is often our holiday month. It is the month of roses, dragonflies, sunshine, blue sky, white fluffy clouds, the longest day of the year, sweet peas, strawberries, pretty dresses, swifts, sweet williams, and green green grass. All of these things make me smile and I am very glad that June is finally here.
Friday, 24 May 2013
A Permanent Ache
Three weeks ago I suffered a miscarriage.
We found out that I was pregnant in mid-March. Although we were a bit scared we were very happy and excited.
Just before Easter I started spotting. I had my first appointment with the midwife that same day, thankfully. She was able to put my mind at ease but as she couldn't 100% rule anything out she referred me for an early scan.
The spotting stopped later that same day, and as I waited for my scan the pregnancy symptoms such as nausea and tiredness began to make themselves known. I allowed my original excitement to return and fervently hoped that all would be well.
I had the scan when I was 7 weeks. We could see a tiny someone, our tiny someone, his heartbeat flickering away. It was an amazing moment.
At 10 weeks I started bleeding. The instant I discovered it I knew that something was wrong. The scan this time confirmed the worst. Our baby had stopped developing shortly after 7 weeks and his heartbeat had stopped.
We were both devastated. Even though we had expected bad news we had still hoped for a miracle.
Writing about it publicly like this is really hard. I don't think I can convey just how much it hurts. I am logical and so in my head I am able to think about the future, about trying again. I know I did nothing wrong, I didn't cause this to happen, but still I want to scream out why?
My heart aches permanently for our loss, yet it continues to beat with a deep love for our little one who is now gone.
I trust God completely even though I can't understand why this has happened and why He wanted our little one so soon. Too soon for me. It is harder than I can describe. Everyone says these things happen for a reason but right now that is no comfort. My head knows that but my heart doesn't care.
My husband has been an absolute rock even though he is grieving too. My family, closest friends, and colleagues have been incredibly supportive. Many have surrounded us with prayer, something I know has given us strength and courage.
I had temporarily abstained from social media and certain social events. Everybody's life goes on but for a while my world stopped. I am back now, and that includes to the world of blogging. I have already been back at work for over a week, I've been doing chores, spending time with loved ones, and still finding joy in spring and the outdoors. A return to 'normality' is in progress, but my grief is still ever present.
Bit by bit, with the help of God and the support of those who love us I know I will get through, that we will both get through. But we will never forget the precious little one who was in our life for such a short time, unseen but already so loved.
We found out that I was pregnant in mid-March. Although we were a bit scared we were very happy and excited.
Just before Easter I started spotting. I had my first appointment with the midwife that same day, thankfully. She was able to put my mind at ease but as she couldn't 100% rule anything out she referred me for an early scan.
The spotting stopped later that same day, and as I waited for my scan the pregnancy symptoms such as nausea and tiredness began to make themselves known. I allowed my original excitement to return and fervently hoped that all would be well.
I had the scan when I was 7 weeks. We could see a tiny someone, our tiny someone, his heartbeat flickering away. It was an amazing moment.
At 10 weeks I started bleeding. The instant I discovered it I knew that something was wrong. The scan this time confirmed the worst. Our baby had stopped developing shortly after 7 weeks and his heartbeat had stopped.
We were both devastated. Even though we had expected bad news we had still hoped for a miracle.
Writing about it publicly like this is really hard. I don't think I can convey just how much it hurts. I am logical and so in my head I am able to think about the future, about trying again. I know I did nothing wrong, I didn't cause this to happen, but still I want to scream out why?
My heart aches permanently for our loss, yet it continues to beat with a deep love for our little one who is now gone.
I trust God completely even though I can't understand why this has happened and why He wanted our little one so soon. Too soon for me. It is harder than I can describe. Everyone says these things happen for a reason but right now that is no comfort. My head knows that but my heart doesn't care.
My husband has been an absolute rock even though he is grieving too. My family, closest friends, and colleagues have been incredibly supportive. Many have surrounded us with prayer, something I know has given us strength and courage.
I had temporarily abstained from social media and certain social events. Everybody's life goes on but for a while my world stopped. I am back now, and that includes to the world of blogging. I have already been back at work for over a week, I've been doing chores, spending time with loved ones, and still finding joy in spring and the outdoors. A return to 'normality' is in progress, but my grief is still ever present.
Bit by bit, with the help of God and the support of those who love us I know I will get through, that we will both get through. But we will never forget the precious little one who was in our life for such a short time, unseen but already so loved.
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